2012年8月,南怀瑾看着二儿子南小舜,忽然说:我对不起你们

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-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>2012年8月,南怀瑾看着赶回来的二儿子南小舜,忽然说了一句:“我对不起你们。”南小舜哭着说:“爸,不要这样说,都过去了。”</p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>南怀瑾的生命,当时已经到了最后时刻,回忆起过往,不免感到愧 疚。</p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>南怀瑾生在中国文化最为没落的时代, 甚至中国的知识分子也对于自己的文化,采取了敌视的态度。</p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>比如美国留学归来的胡适,就认为中国落后的根源,就在于文化的落后,所以带领着一大群知名知识分子,把传统文化打倒了。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>南怀瑾对于这个问题却有清醒的认识,他认为中国将来的复兴 ,还得依靠中国的文化,他反问胡适:“如果中国文化没有了,那中国人还算是中国人吗?”<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>为了接续文化的断层,南怀瑾在融汇儒佛教三教,在大雪山闭关三年之后,下山后六十余年,都是在为保留中国文化的根基不断的努力。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>讲学六十年,这在中国历史上也是非常少见的。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>正因为南怀瑾把所有的精力,都放到了传播传统文化上面,所以对于子女的关照极少,儿女们和也弟子们没有什么区别,甚至还没有弟子见父亲的次数多。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>正是多年来南怀瑾视家人为天下人,视天下人为亲人,公而忘私,不免对子女有所疏离。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>甚至儿子来到父亲创办的学堂,每次来吃饭也是要交费的,这让外人看来,南怀瑾不喜欢自己的子女,或者是与子女不亲,更有人对南小舜的态度也冷淡疏远。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>这让南小舜等子女们感到不理解, 但是等到他们长大后,也感悟到了父亲的良苦用心,所以对于父亲也就没有记恨的心理了。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>南小舜后来回忆时说:“能与南老师结上子女的亲,毕竟是有些华严因缘,本来就是万缘不缠一身轻的,这样的对待,就是一种助道的方式,让我充满感激之情。”<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>可能有些人会认为南怀瑾无情,其实这正是有情的表现,只是这有情给了众生更多,对于弟子更多而已,对于一个传道者,不可避免的要舍弃一些俗世的感情, 这也是不可避免的。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>好在,南怀瑾传道六十年,硕果累累,不仅把中国文化保留了下来,而且还远播到了国外,外国政要都以成为他的弟子为荣。</p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>一生传播中国文化的著述,共55卷本,包括《论语别裁》《如何修证佛法》《金刚经说什么》《历史的经验》《静坐修道与长生不老》等书, 仅是复旦大学出版社正版统计就达到了1500万册以上,盗版的数量应该也在数千万册以上。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; display: block; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style='background: 0px 0px rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;'>这实际上是在几千万中国人的心中埋下了文化的种子,不断地开花结果,这些人都是21世纪中华民族伟大复兴的中坚力量。</p> <h3 style="text-align: center;"><a class="link" contenteditable="false" href="https://www.meipian.cn/4h3htzm1?first_share_to=group_singlemessage&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=144626" target="_blank"><i class="iconfont icon-iconfontlink"> </i>南怀瑾先生讲谈节选合集</a><strong></strong></h3>