<a class="link" contenteditable="false" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/9iGLae39wxgwHFZO_QcUBg" target="_blank"><i class="iconfont icon-iconfontlink"> </i>点击查看原文</a><strong></strong> <section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; text-transform: none; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; letter-spacing: 0.54px; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;" data-id="59692"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;" data-id="59692"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;" data-id="59692"><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;" data-id="59692"><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 24px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">《列子臆说》</font></span></section></h1><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1></section><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1></section><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1></section><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1></section><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 0px 0px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: normal; letter-spacing: 0.54px; font-size: 17px; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; font-size: 20px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">南怀瑾先生 著述</font></span></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); clear: both; font-size: 17px; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">[内容节选]</font></span></p></section><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></h1><h1 style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; text-transform: none; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; letter-spacing: 0.54px; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;" data-id="59692"><font face="宋体"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></font></section></section></h1></section></section></section><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">我们看历史上一个经验。南宋的时候，贾似道上来当宰相，朋友写了一首诗送给他：“劝君高举擎天手，多少旁人冷眼看。”你好好地干，尤其是当了宰相，一只手要把天撑住不倒下来，别人歪起眼睛坐在那里，专门在批评，在看你。地位越高，所有箭头都会针对你而来的。所以人生要想过得舒服，要不出名，谁也不认识你，才是天下最幸福的人。有一点知名度，大家都了解你、认识你，那是最痛苦的人。因为他变成所有箭头的目标，有一点缺点，万人都看到，就完了。他如果不出名，也没有地位，他可以在地上打滚、睡大觉，谁也不看他啊！这是道家的思想，所以告诉我们“度在身，稽在人”。</font></span></p><section style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></span></section><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">“人爱我，我必爱之”，这是当然的道理，相反的，《列子》又说，你要大家对你好，你问自己对别人怎么样？你对别人都是冷眼相看，要别人热眼看你，也做不到。所以“人恶我，我必恶之”，这是当然的因果关系。</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><section style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">……</font></span></section><section style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></span></section><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">所以一辈子不管什么光荣，也不管别人怎么想，人生过得很痛快，一句话，“终身逌然，不知荣辱之在彼也，在我也”，这就是人生哲学。人为什么要外面人讲你好，你才觉得自己好呢？外面跟我毫不相干，在我自己，我认为好就好，爱笑就笑，爱哭就哭，跟别人毫不相干，所以一切在于自我，因此建立了自我的信心。</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">……</font></span></p><section style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></span></section><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;">“凡是重外者拱内”，对外界的环境太重视时，心里就虚了，因为被外在影响了。人处理事务也一样，太重视环境，自己就受影响。</span>比如，有个人进到我们这里，看见全堂坐满了，被这个场面吓住了；有些人不在乎这个场面，哪里都可以坐，很自然。所以被外界环境所影响的人成不了大事，成不了大器。常有国外的青年同学夜里打长途电话给我，问婚姻的事，考虑东考虑西的。我电话里骂他一顿，我说你这个孩子，平常跟我那么久，人生就是赌，婚姻也是赌，赢输谁有把握！<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></font></span></p><section style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></span></section><p style="margin: 0px 32px 5px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); text-transform: none; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; clear: both; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 18px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word; caret-color: rgb(102, 85, 68);"><font face="宋体">你赌泥巴的时候很轻松，没有负担，智慧就高了；心里一有负担啊，智慧就低了。心理负担是怎么来的？受外界的影响来的。他说你忘记了一切外界的影响，你就是大丈夫，可以顶天立地了。</font></span></p><br class="Apple-interchange-newline"> <h3 style="text-align: center;"><a class="link" contenteditable="false" href="https://www.meipian.cn/4h3htzm1?first_share_to=group_singlemessage&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=144626" target="_blank"><i class="iconfont icon-iconfontlink"> </i>南怀瑾先生讲谈节选合集</a><strong></strong></h3>