Speak fast and clear 说得快些,清楚些

杜薇霞 海伦

<p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">Speak fast and clear</p><p class="ql-block">Sometimes, I ask myself why people don't like me. I think about my words, my actions, and if I did something wrong. Did I talk too much? or maybe I stayed too quiet, I try to remember moments when things might have gone bad, and it makes me feel unsure about myself. </p><p class="ql-block">I think about how I am. Am I too difficult? Too shy or too bold? Maybe I was trying too hard to be liked, and it didn't work. It's not easy to understand what people think about me, and sometimes, it feels like I am not good enough. </p><p class="ql-block">But then, I remind myself of something important: not everyone will like me, and that's okay. People might judge me, but they don't really know me. I have good qualities and I try my best every day. </p><p class="ql-block">Most importantly, I have many things to be thankful for. I have my health, my dreams and people who care about me, I like myself and I'm proud of who I am. Even if some people don't like me, I won't stop being me and that's what matters. </p> <p class="ql-block">有时候我会问自己为什么别人不喜欢我,我会回想自己的言语,行为,思考自己是不是做错了什么,是我话太多了吗?是太沉默了,我努力回想那些可能出错的时刻,这让我对自己感到很不确定。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">我在想自己到底是怎样的人?我是太难相处了,太害羞了,还是太冒失了? 也许我太努力想要讨人喜欢了,却没有成功。要明白别人是怎样看我的并不容易,有时候甚至觉得自己不够好,但随后我提醒自己一件重要的事情,不是每个人都会喜欢我,这没关系,人们可能会评判我。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">但随后,我提醒自己一件重要的事儿:不是每个人都会喜欢我,这没关系,人们可能会评判我,但他们并不真正了解我有好的品质,而且每天都尽力而为。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">最重要的是,我有很多值得感恩的事情,我有健康,拥有梦想,还有关心我的人,我喜欢自己,也为自己的存在感到骄傲。即便有些人不喜欢我,我也不会改变自己,这才是关键所在。</p>