<p class="ql-block"> 不管是政治家、伟人、艺术家、诗人、文学家、科学家、大国工匠都离不开爱。因为这是人类生存、繁衍中获取生活勇气和力量的最底层需要。</p><p class="ql-block"> 是把她看成仅仅是“性”的生理需求，还是继续升华到精神需求的更高境界，取决于一个人的三观、文化底蕴……</p><p class="ql-block"> 看看这些近现代人杰是如何对待这个问题的；热烈而含蓄，坦诚并专一，宏大而细微。爱与婚姻的完美结合，可谓当今社会之楷模。</p><p class="ql-block"> 曾和一些年轻人谈过类似的问题，文化层次较低的人认为：现在提倡解放人性，就是“性”的解放。所以“暗藏”屡禁不止。文化层次较高的人认为，爱与婚姻完全是两码事！宁可享受爱情的甜蜜，而不愿承担婚姻的责任，导致婚外情、离婚率高发。造成这种现象的发生，有客观社会原因，也有舆论等主观的引导问题。</p><p class="ql-block"> 这是一个包容的社会，它有先进的科技高速发展的一面，也有低级倒退的一面。可怕的是，按照维根斯坦的逻辑论哲学观点，语言即是哲学，哲学是为人服务的。如果人对爱的理解定格在了“性”“享乐”的层面，你怎么将其表达出来，就是你真实存在的事实。想想都可怕！</p><p class="ql-block"> 所以，舆论宣传、引导何等重要！难道我们还不如古人了吗？</p> <p class="ql-block">《情长纸短，吻你万千》</p><p class="ql-block">--最美爱情书信金句</p><p class="ql-block">编辑：小树（中文）</p><p class="ql-block">英译：Deepseek</p><p class="ql-block">音画诵读：小草</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p> <p class="ql-block">《情长纸短，吻你万千》</p><p class="ql-block">----那些美到极致的情书</p><p class="ql-block">编辑：小树</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（沈从文写给张兆和的情书：）</p><p class="ql-block">我行过许多地方的桥</p><p class="ql-block">看过许多次数的云</p><p class="ql-block">喝过许多种类的酒</p><p class="ql-block">却只爱过一个正当最好年龄的人</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（钱钟书写给杨绛的情书：）</p><p class="ql-block">没遇到你之前，</p><p class="ql-block">我没想过结婚，</p><p class="ql-block">遇见你，</p><p class="ql-block">结婚这事我没想过和别人。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（徐志摩写给陆小曼的情书：）</p><p class="ql-block">我没有别的方法，我就有爱；</p><p class="ql-block">没有别的天才，就是爱；</p><p class="ql-block">没有别的能力，只是爱；</p><p class="ql-block">没有别的动力，只是爱。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（鲁迅写给许广平的情书：）</p><p class="ql-block">我寄你的信，</p><p class="ql-block">总要送往邮局，</p><p class="ql-block">不喜欢放在街边的绿色邮筒中，</p><p class="ql-block">我总疑心那里会慢一点。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（朱生豪写给宋清如的情书：）</p><p class="ql-block">不要愁老之将至，</p><p class="ql-block">你老了一定很可爱。</p><p class="ql-block">而且，假如你老了十岁，</p><p class="ql-block">我当然也老了十岁，</p><p class="ql-block">世界也老了十岁，</p><p class="ql-block">上帝也老了十岁，</p><p class="ql-block">一切都一样。</p><p class="ql-block">我愿意舍弃一切，</p><p class="ql-block">以想念你终此一生。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（张爱玲和胡兰成的《爱》：）</p><p class="ql-block">于千万人之中遇见你所要遇见的人，</p><p class="ql-block">于千万年之中，</p><p class="ql-block">时间的无涯的荒野里，</p><p class="ql-block">没有早一步，也没有晚一步，</p><p class="ql-block">刚巧赶上了，</p><p class="ql-block">那也没有别的话可说，</p><p class="ql-block">惟有轻轻地问一声：“噢，你也在这里吗？”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（朱自清写给陈竹隐的情书：）</p><p class="ql-block">一见你的眼睛，我便清醒起来，</p><p class="ql-block">我更喜欢看你那晕红的双腮，</p><p class="ql-block">黄昏时的霞彩似的，</p><p class="ql-block">谢谢你给我力量。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（余光中写给范我存的情书：）</p><p class="ql-block">不要问我心里有没有你，</p><p class="ql-block">我余光中都是你。</p><p class="ql-block">你带笑地向我步来，</p><p class="ql-block">月色与雪色之间，</p><p class="ql-block">你是第三种绝色。</p><p class="ql-block">你的眼睛里可真好看，</p><p class="ql-block">里面有晴云、山川、云雾、花鸟。</p><p class="ql-block">但我的眼睛更好看，</p><p class="ql-block">因为我的眼睛里有你。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（梁思成和林徽因爱的对白：）</p><p class="ql-block">（梁）“有一句话，我只问这一次，</p><p class="ql-block">以后都不会再问，为什么是我？”</p><p class="ql-block">（林）：“答案很长，</p><p class="ql-block">我准备用一生的时间来回答，</p><p class="ql-block">你准备要听了吗？”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（ZHOU恩来和DENG颖超爱的书信:)</p><p class="ql-block">（周）：你的信太过官方，都不说想我。</p><p class="ql-block">（邓）：ZHOU总理是大忙人，哪有时间来想我。</p><p class="ql-block">（周）：闲人怎么知道忙人多想闲人。</p><p class="ql-block">望你珍重，吻你万千。</p><p class="ql-block">（邓）：情长纸短，还吻你万千。</p><p class="ql-block">（周）：我这一生都是坚定不移的唯物主义者，</p><p class="ql-block">唯你，我希望有来生。</p> <p class="ql-block">《Endless Love on a Tiny Page, Countless Kisses to You》</p><p class="ql-block">—Exquisitely Beautiful Love Letters</p><p class="ql-block">Translater: Deepseek</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Shen Congwen to Zhang Zhaohe:)</p><p class="ql-block">I have crossed many bridges in my travels,</p><p class="ql-block">Seen clouds drift by countless times,</p><p class="ql-block">Tasted wines of many kinds</p><p class="ql-block">—Yet I have loved only one</p><p class="ql-block">Who was just at the right age.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Qian Zhongshu to Yang Jiang:)</p><p class="ql-block">Before I met you,</p><p class="ql-block">I never thought of marriage.</p><p class="ql-block">After meeting you,</p><p class="ql-block">I never thought of marriage with anyone else.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Xu Zhimo to Lu Xiaoman:)</p><p class="ql-block">I have no other way, I only have love;</p><p class="ql-block">No other talent,</p><p class="ql-block"> just love;</p><p class="ql-block">No other ability, only love;</p><p class="ql-block">No other motivation, </p><p class="ql-block">just love.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Lu Xun to Xu Guangping:)</p><p class="ql-block">Whenever I send you a letter,</p><p class="ql-block">I always take it to the post office myself</p><p class="ql-block">—I dislike dropping it in the green mailbox on the street,</p><p class="ql-block">For I always fear it might be slower that way.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Zhu Shenghao to Song Qingru:)</p><p class="ql-block">Don’t worry about growing old</p><p class="ql-block">—You’ll be just as lovely when you’re old.</p><p class="ql-block">And if you age ten years,</p><p class="ql-block">Then I too will age ten,</p><p class="ql-block">The world will age ten,</p><p class="ql-block">Even God will age ten</p><p class="ql-block">—Everything will be the same.</p><p class="ql-block">I’m willing to give up everything,</p><p class="ql-block">Just to spend my life missing you.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Zhang Ailing & Hu Lancheng’s "Love":)</p><p class="ql-block">Among thousands of people, </p><p class="ql-block">you meet the one you’re meant to meet.</p><p class="ql-block">Through thousands of years,</p><p class="ql-block">In the boundless wilderness of time—Not a step too early,</p><p class="ql-block">Nor a step too late,</p><p class="ql-block">You happen to meet them.</p><p class="ql-block">And there’s nothing more to say,</p><p class="ql-block">Just a soft whisper:“Oh, so you’re here too?”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Zhu Ziqing to Chen Zhuyin:)</p><p class="ql-block">The moment I see your eyes, </p><p class="ql-block">I wake anew.</p><p class="ql-block">I adore even more the rosy blush on your cheeks,</p><p class="ql-block">Like the evening’s afterglow.</p><p class="ql-block">Thank you for giving me strength.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Yu Guangzhong to Fan Wocun:)</p><p class="ql-block">Don’t ask if you’re in my heart</p><p class="ql-block">—In my Yu GuangZhong，</p><p class="ql-block">it’s all you.</p><p class="ql-block">You walk toward me with a smile,</p><p class="ql-block">Between the moonlight and the snow</p><p class="ql-block">—You are the third kind of breath taking beauty.</p><p class="ql-block">Your eyes are truly lovely,</p><p class="ql-block">Holding clear skies, mountains, mist, and blossoms.</p><p class="ql-block">But my eyes are even more beautiful,</p><p class="ql-block">Because they have you in them.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Liang Sicheng & Lin Huiyin’s Love Dialogue:)</p><p class="ql-block">（Liang:）</p><p class="ql-block">“One question—just this once,</p><p class="ql-block">I’ll never ask again: Why me?”</p><p class="ql-block">(Lin:)</p><p class="ql-block">“The answer is long,</p><p class="ql-block">I’ll need a lifetime to explain.</p><p class="ql-block">Are you ready to listen?”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Zhou Enlai & Deng Yingchao’s Love Letters:)</p><p class="ql-block">(Zhou:)</p><p class="ql-block">Your letters are too formal—you never say you miss me.</p><p class="ql-block">(Deng:)</p><p class="ql-block">Premier Zhou is far too busy—how could he have time to miss me?</p><p class="ql-block">(Zhou:)</p><p class="ql-block">How would an idle person know</p><p class="ql-block"> how much a busy man misses them?Take care, my love, and kisses to you—thousands of them.</p><p class="ql-block">(Deng:)</p><p class="ql-block">So much love, </p><p class="ql-block">so little paper—still, I kiss you endlessly.</p><p class="ql-block">(Zhou:)</p><p class="ql-block">All my life, </p><p class="ql-block">I’ve been a steadfast materialist,</p><p class="ql-block">But for you, </p><p class="ql-block">I’m willing to believe in an afterlife.</p>