《女儿和妈妈的对话》

源宏英语说

中国一代又一代善良的家长用惨痛的代价换来了一天天的觉醒。没有孩子天生就是天才，他们的成长需要鼓励与认可，只有让孩子自信快乐，下一代才会健康成长……Generations of kind-hearted Chinese parents have paid a painful price to gradually gain awareness. No child is born a genius; their growth requires encouragement and recognition. Only by making children confident and happy can the next generation grow up healthily... 女儿和妈妈的对话The conversation between the daughter and the mother 妈妈：考这么点分，长大了能有什么出息？你告诉我。Mom: With such a low score, what kind of success can you achieve when you grow up? Tell me./wɪð sʌtʃ ə ləʊ skɔː(r), wɒt kaɪnd əv səkˈses kæn juː əˈtʃiːv wen juː ɡrəʊ ʌp? tel miː/ 女儿：妈妈，哪吒他娘说过一句话，“娘从没在乎过你是仙是魔，娘只知道你是娘的儿。”Daughter: Mom, the mother of Nezha once said a sentence. “Mom has never cared whether you are a fairy or a demon. Mom only knows that you are my child.”/mɒm, ðə ˈmʌðə(r) ɒv ˈneɪdʒə wʌns sed ə ˈsentəns. mɒm hæz ˈnevə(r) keəd ˈweðə(r) juː ɑː(r) ə ˈfeəri ɔː(r) ə ˈdiːmən. mɒm ˈəʊnli nəʊz ðæt juː ɑː(r) mɑɪ tʃaɪld/ 妈妈：别给我整那些没用的。考这么点分就不行。Mom: Don't say those useless things to me. A score like this is definitely not acceptable./dəʊnt seɪ ðəʊz ˈjuːsləs θɪŋz tuː miː. ə skɔː(r) laɪk ðɪs ɪz ˈdefɪnətli nɒt əkˈseptəbl/ 女儿：分数和成绩有那么重要吗？我只不过是做错了题，又不是做错了人。Daughter: Are scores and grades really that important? I just got some questions wrong, not that I'm a bad person./ɑː(r) skɔː(r)z ənd ɡreɪdz ˈriːəli ðæt ɪmˈpɔː(r)tnt? aɪ dʒʌst ɡɒt sʌm ˈkwestʃənz rɒŋ, nɒt ðæt aɪm ə bæd ˈpɜː(r)s(ə)n/ 女儿：榜上无名，不代表脚下无路。Daughter: Not being on the list doesn't mean there's no way ahead./nɒt ˈbiːɪŋ ɒn ðə lɪst ˈdʌznt miːn ðeəz nəʊ weɪ əˈhed/ 女儿：学渣不一定是废品，学霸也不一定是正品。Daughter: A poor student is not necessarily a good-for-nothing, and a top student is not necessarily perfect./ə pɔː(r) ˈstjuːdənt ɪz nɒt ˌnesəˈserəli ə ˈɡʊd fɔː(r) ˈnʌθɪŋ, ənd ə tɒp ˈstjuːdənt ɪz nɒt ˌnesəˈserəli ˈpɜː(r)fɪkt/ 女儿：没有人因为考试赢得所有，也没有人因为考试输掉一生。Daughter: No one wins everything just because of an exam. And no one loses their whole life because of an exam./nəʊ wʌn wɪnz ˈevriθɪŋ dʒʌst bɪˈkɒz ɒv ən ɪɡˈzæm. ənd nəʊ wʌn ˈluːzɪz ðeə(r) həʊl laɪf bɪˈkɒz ɒv ən ɪɡˈzæm/ 女儿：答案只不过是一张纸，未来才是一幅画。Daughter: The answer is just a piece of paper, while the future is a painting./ðə ˈɑːnsə(r) ɪz dʒʌst ə piːs ɒv ˈpeɪpə(r), waɪl ðə ˈfjuːtʃə(r) ɪz ə ˈpeɪntɪŋ/ 女儿：妈妈，你还记得我刚出生的时候，你最希望的不就是我平安、健康、快乐吗？Daughter: Mom, do you still remember that when I was just born, what you hoped for most was that I would be safe, healthy and happy?/mɒm, duː juː stɪl rɪˈmembə(r) ðæt wen aɪ wəz dʒʌst bɔː(r)n, wɒt juː həʊpt fɔː(r) məʊst wəz ðæt aɪ wʊd biː seɪf, ˈhelθi ənd ˈhæpi/ （妈妈用惊讶的眼神看着女儿，无言以对，陷入了沉思。)（Mom looked at her daughter with a surprised look in her eyes, was speechless, and fell into deep thought.）/mɒm lʊkt æt hə(r) ˈdɔːtə(r) wɪð ə səˈpraɪzd lʊk ɪn hə(r) aɪz, wəz ˈspiːtʃləs, ənd fel ˈɪntuː diːp θɔːt/ 源宏老师寄语：Message from Teacher Yuanhong: 亲爱的家长朋友们，当你们为孩子的分数焦虑不已，将孩子送离身边，挤破头追求“高分赛道”时，是否还记得孩子出生那一刻，心底最纯粹的愿望——只盼他平安健康快乐？Dear parents and friends, when you are extremely anxious about your children's scores, send your children away from you, and desperately strive for the "high-score track", do you still remember the purest wish in your heart at the moment when your child was born - just hoping that he would be safe, healthy and happy? 成绩只是人生考卷的一道题，而非全部答案。Grades are just one question on the examination paper of life, not the whole answer. 那些为了分数忽略的陪伴、被压抑的天性，或许正在悄悄带走孩子眼里的光。The companionship that has been ignored for the sake of scores and the suppressed nature may be quietly taking away the light in the children's eyes. 孩子们，别因一时的分数否定自己。Children, don't deny yourselves because of a temporary score. 就像哪吒的故事告诉我们，人生从不由他人定义。Just as the story of Nezha tells us, life is never defined by others. 错题不代表错人，当下的成绩也框不住未来无限可能。A wrong answer to a question doesn't mean you are a wrong person, and the current grades can't limit the infinite possibilities of the future. 你善良、勇敢、充满好奇的模样，远比试卷上的数字珍贵。Your kind, brave and curious appearance is far more precious than the numbers on the test paper. 教育不该是一场你追我赶的军备竞赛。Education should not be an arms race where everyone is competing with each other. 真正的成长，是教会孩子心怀家国、懂得感恩，拥有强健的体魄和坚韧的内心。True growth is to teach children to care about their country and family, know how to be grateful, and have a strong body and a resilient heart. 分数或许能决定一时的排名，但温暖的品格、独立的人格，才是照亮孩子一生的光。Scores may determine the ranking for a while, but a warm character and an independent personality are the lights that illuminate a child's entire life. 愿家长放下焦虑，让孩子以自己的节奏成长；May parents let go of their anxiety and let their children grow at their own pace. 愿孩子们不惧评判，在属于自己的人生画卷上，描绘独一无二的精彩。May children not be afraid of judgment and paint a unique splendor on their own life canvases.