<p class="ql-block">When a lot of people getting together, there must be some screte. I choose to keep blind to all covered issues. If you are kept away from that, you will be safe and will not annoy anyone. But if you are aware of it. It will make you in dangerous situation. Even you are not intended to affend, your words are still reckoned to be linked with it. And you lost your chance to clarify yourself. The best choice is to keep silent. </p><p class="ql-block">Sun rises every day, so true. When you realize it will sink anyway, and speak out, definitely it produces some negative feeling. When darkness falls down, and brings inconvinience to people thereof, you will be the one to blame, in spite of your innocence.</p><p class="ql-block">Birthday banquet starts from courtesy manner of toasting. Later the topic changed to man's instrests. He said, " man has three lucky events: promoted in ranks, making forturn, and wife passed away." People around laughed, including me. His partner's wife is siting there. No one looked at her. But he knew, he hurt her, and he knew why, his mother is working on it. No third person perceive the wierd atomosphere. </p><p class="ql-block">She suddenly made a fuss about the drink and complaint the unpleasant smell, in an exagerate way. No one cares about that. Or, no one can interprete this. </p>