<p class="ql-block ql-indent-1"><b style="color:rgb(176, 79, 187); font-size:20px;"><i>Most people get married believing a myth --that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for: companionship, fulfilment, intimacy, friendship.</i></b></p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">大多数已婚人士相信一个神话——婚姻是一个美丽的盒子，盛满了他们渴慕已久的各种东西：柔情蜜意，万事遂心，似水柔情，温馨相伴</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1"><b style="font-size:20px; color:rgb(176, 79, 187);"><i>The truth is that marriage,at the start, is only an empty box.</i></b></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">真相是，婚姻，在起初，只是一个空盒子！</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1"><b style="color:rgb(176, 79, 187); font-size:20px;"><i>You must put something in before you take anything out.</i></b></p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">在你想要从盒子里取出东西前，你必须放进去一些东西</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1"><b style="color:rgb(176, 79, 187); font-size:20px;"><i>There is no love in marriage;love is in people, and people put love into marriage.</i></b></p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">婚姻里没有爱；爱在人心中，人把爱倾注于婚姻里，婚姻才让双方感觉到爱意</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1"><b style="color:rgb(176, 79, 187); font-size:20px;"><i>There is no romance in marriage; people have to add it into their marriage</i></b></p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">婚姻里没有浪漫，人们必须把浪漫添加到婚姻里，婚姻才变得浪漫</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1"><b style="color:rgb(176, 79, 187); font-size:20px;"><i>A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving,serving,praising--keeping the box full.</i></b></p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">男女双方必须学会爱的艺术，还要形成这样一个习惯:奉献、关爱、服务、赞美——一直让这个盒子满满的</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1"><b style="font-size:20px; color:rgb(176, 79, 187);"><i>If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty.</i></b></p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">如果你索取多，给予少，这个盒子将会空空如也</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">——这是很久前，遇到的一篇文章</p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">每次读来，都有深刻体会</p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">所以，将它摘录出来，并加以翻译</p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">但愿</p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">它，也能给你爱的启迪</p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">让你的婚姻爱意融融</p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1"><br></p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">【原文附后】</p>