On Current Marriage <p class="ql-block">It is a rich society, it is a poor society. It is busy society and It it a free society, as well as it is a happy society and it is a sad society. It is hard to describe this society. Everyone is busy making money.There are numerous high buildings in the big cities and famous brand cars coming and going every block.There are many handsome men and pretty girls facing their cell phones , smiling silently on the buses and subways. We cannot spend a bit time cooking breakfast, so we have to take the dog- food bags , eating happily and quickly. Therefore, making money is the main task, because they spend money purchasing apartments and gorgeous cars to seek after the modernized city life. Is it a good thing? Is it a bad thing? </p><p class="ql-block">On arriving at the park, you will easily find that there are a good number of retired people , dancing, singing, playing chess ,chatting , playing the paper cards etc. Of course, there are lots of retailers selling daily goods on the path, hoping that they can make lots of money when they are on holidays. Some young people are doing nothing. </p><p class="ql-block">When you are walking along the path, nobody can say hello to you. Facing these strange faces, I am thinking what I am supposed to do. It is cloudy in autumn, so the cold wind blowing makes me indifferent and isolated .</p><p class="ql-block">Walking along the path, you are able to figure out a chain of posters hanging in front of you. They are made up by the green posters and pink ones. Some people who are reading them one by one seem to be sad. What has taken place? It is an enrollment about hunting for the wishful spouses. It is easily found that many youth are single or divorced because of many unknown reasons. Who are they ? </p><p class="ql-block">They are rich, and they have had enough much money. No matter who that are looking for spouses are rather famous and rich, they have many additional conditions which are about the partners. What a pity, just posters , there is nobody at the occasion. Why is it ? They are busy earning money, are not they ? </p><p class="ql-block">I, therefore, start asking myself . Nowadays , it is terribly competitive for them to live in the big city if the workers are not the local citizens. Money is standing for every thing. Money has us become indifferent to each other. What is more, hardly will we believe what other have promised to you. There are many young people who are divorced or single all the time around us. Marriage has been the horrible grave. Once they get married , they need to pay back what they have borrowed or loaned from the banks.The more burdens are in front of them . So they think being single is the best choice. Finding a proper partner is a hard nut to eat . </p><p class="ql-block">Nowadays, our environment has changed completely and thoroughly. The distance among people is being longer and longer. Why? we can easily find someone or something that let them isolated in daily life. There is a distinguished difference between the rich and the poor. The main tasks are finished by the young people. So they have no time to study or hunt for a spouse. </p><p class="ql-block">As time goes by, the National birth rate is declining quickly so that our central government advocates the second or the third child . However, we are paying for the housing and cars by making money. We are single dogs. How can we raise a child?</p><p class="ql-block">To be single or not to be single is a question. In my mind, a married life is better than the single one. </p><p class="ql-block">The imperative issue is how to set up a good and harmonious family ?</p><p class="ql-block">At first, let us understand each other. If the single wants to have a couple life. The most important thing is to try to accept both advantages and disadvantages each other. Compared with three decades ago, we used to not be rich, we were happier than now. We were living in the countryside, there was no extra burden to shoulder ,and marriage was stable. Today, it is totally different . A family , if there are many people living together , they can help each other. While, nowadays, we are separated from our parents. So it is hard to own enough time to chat and help others. What is more, the kitchen has gradually been replaced by buying food at the app of Mei Tuan .we cannot get a good family environment because we need not eat meals together. </p><p class="ql-block">Secondly, we should change our attitude towards marriage , money and time. In my mind, time is the most valuable thing for us. Although we cannot live without enough materials, if we can help , accept, appreciate each other , there will be more people who can get their ideal spouse. </p><p class="ql-block">Finally, we should devote a certain time to loving others. What is love? Love is to accept all, love is to put down arrogance and preference, love is to think for others , love is to serve others. As long as we can find a piece of love from the cold weather, there will be warm in winter. So, let us build a common love community with a shared future.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p>