十九年如一日照顾病瘫爱人的卢维学

东方-耿志刚

<p style="margin: 0pt; text-align: left; text-indent: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0000;"><font color="#000000"><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体"> 卢维学是</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">临沂市</font></span></font><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font color="#000000" face="宋体">兰山区半程镇前孙沟社区的村民,照顾老伴他已坚持了</font><font color="#000000">1</font></span><font color="#000000"><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'>9</span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">年。卢维学</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">的老伴叫</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">石立花</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'>1</span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'>9</span></font><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font color="#000000" face="宋体">年前突发脑梗塞导致全身偏瘫,不能自理。卢维学个头不高,约</font><font color="#000000">1米65,6</font></span><font color="#000000"><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'>9</span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">岁</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">性格乐观</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">开朗,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">在村里是个热心人,担任村里</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">的</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">红白理事会成员。一场突如其来的变故打乱了平静的生活,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">照顾老伴成了他的日常。</font></span></font><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font color="#000000" face="宋体">为了照顾妻子,年迈的卢维学把仅有</font><font color="#000000">2亩地交给孩子</font></span><font color="#000000"><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">耕</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">种后,又养了一头母牛来增加家庭收入</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">。十八年来,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">卢维学把老伴照顾的无微不至,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">每次</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">出门前,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">总</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">不忘把一碗</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">开</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">水放在老伴的左手边,千叮咛万嘱咐完才放心出门。</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">在外</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">一个小时,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">就要</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">匆匆</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">赶</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">回家,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">察看老伴的情况。一天的劳作结束以后,还要为老伴按摩</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">虚肿的双脚</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">,</font></span><span style='font-family: 宋体; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: "yes"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0000pt;'><font face="宋体">帮老伴端完尿盆并擦洗干净,推着轮椅让老伴出来散心。</font></span></font></p>