<h3>我親愛的媽媽朱琪昌在2020年5月3日6:15在晚餐时安静的走了. 享年97岁.</h3> <h3>去年9月6日我如往常从休斯顿去延长油田做项目中期汇报后返美，临行前我抱抱你，你拉著我的手依依不捨。我说妈妈，你好好的. 四月我再来看你. 谁知那,就是永别.... 我悲痛万分、恍如隔世！妈妈，从今后，你在天上看着我们每个人吧，我仍 会呼唤你，与你轻谈，直到永远！</h3> <h3><br>妈妈，你一向是我们全家人的完美女神和最亲的朋友. 你常说，世界这么大，为什么偏偏我遇见你，遇见他？这是缘份. 你的话像雨露无时无地不在滋润我们接触世界的视角.<br></h3> <h3>你对你父母姐妹兄弟关爱倍至，被爱称为“大姐”、”琪孃孃”，...你对孩孙鼓励加言传身教，多少孩子忘不了你“小弟”“小妹“的妮称、把你做为慈母？你与爸爸72载相濡以沫携手并进，你对事业执着酷爱. 爸爸成功的每一步都有你的身影，我们取得的每一个成绩都是你言传身教的结果. 我们陪养子孙的原则无不来自你榜样的力量. 你说过要宽容，甚至对不起你的人（如文革），也有他们的难处. 你教我们凡事要心平静气以理服人. 不光成就了我们每一个人，你身先士卒了女子要自力自强的信念. 你被朋友誉为中国的撒切尔夫人，你管自己叫“永远有办法的人”. 妈妈近年病了. 但你对照顾你的护工，时儿妙趣横生. 让她们高高兴兴每一天.媽媽的神奇太多了，一點一滴滋潤了我的成長！</h3> <h3>【媽媽的美麗】小時侯我們住在北京7號樓，最神祕的地方是你的衣櫥。那裏盛滿了你的美麗，一只口紅，一條連衣裙的腰帶都是我流連往返的地方，每周從幼兒園囘來都破不急待的學一個你的美發款式。有一次我們去北京機場接爸爸，碰到劉少奇，康克清等領導人歡迎印尼縂統吳奈溫，李延和我跳了一只“我有一頂小草帽”的舞后，被稱為“標准中国家庭“…1980年你第一次隨團赴美，你帶了八只箱子伴著你純美式的英語，优雅知性,，一路风采。</h3> <h3>【媽媽的passion】媽媽先英文講師，后隨了爸爸的石油事業，你做一行愛一行，一絲不苟，認真有加，成為年年的先进工作者。你好像縂是在加班，爸爸常出差，你呢白天工作，晚上讀石油夜大，記得我常是那個睡在媽媽实验室里的孩子。儅我拿到壳牌石油公司总裁奖的时后，我知道我的身后是我的妈妈。<br></h3> <h3>【媽媽的果斷从容】文革，我們一夜成了狗仔子。有一天我去工作區外熱水站打開水。你看到了我和我身上的破軍衣，便毫不犹豫的找到造反派要求放你回家。那時你被関了8個月。湖北五七干校摘棉花，住老鄉家，靠松花蛋，南瓜，高梁米飯，渡過时艰。 平反了，你和爸爸奔赴大港，任丘，北京勘探開發研究院，重囘技術崗位，你和爸爸是那末開心，全力以赴，奉獻能源。一個小小的56樓16平方米成了你們庆祝科學春天，會聚中外友人的殿堂。</h3> <h3>【媽媽的遠見】为了讓我们趕上高等教育读研读博這班車，你赴美考查美国能源部，囘京后把我們叫到爸爸辦公室，給我們設計留學深造。你送走了李延，又送我和大姐赴美留學。</h3> <h3>如今要送我女兒離開休斯頓，去加州伯克利大学讀書，我這才理解你。你那年送走的是與兒女的朝朝暮暮，你無私的期盼著我們的成長與成功。</h3> <h3>【媽媽的执着】媽媽的执着是有名的。對我影響最大的是2001年十一国庆节僅三天假，媽媽往返中美，就為了給我送一席中藥。2002年，我生孟麒，媽媽摯意一夜等在Texas Woman Hospital的沙發上。媽媽教會我母愛是無條件的奉獻。<br></h3> <h3>妈妈留给我们慈悲的心、高贵完美的气质、执着向前的勇敢！你是我们的天和地. 我有幸做你的孩子！愿你一路走好！</h3> <h3>James 致姥姥一路走好：My name is James Wang and my grandmother Zhu Qi Chang raised me in Beijing until I was 6 year oldI watched the birth of my first child on May 1st and learned my grandma passed away the morning of May 3rd US timeI was hoping to video chat and show her our new baby the evening of May 3rdI initially had a lot of regret about this bad timing, but realized her spirit is still here with us, and always will beMany great words have been shared about my grandmother’s kind heart, beauty, empathy, and all of her accomplishmentsI think most important is her higher level pursuit of the truth in this world, including staying true to herself and pursuing her original heart regardless of circumstance, Which has shaped her spirit and soulThey say good things happen to good people but this is not often the case in a broken world that changes peopleMany people only care about money, pride, or status when choosing marriage or friends or business partnerOur younger generation living in this modern world are often superficial and some of us forget about the basic of being a good human beingPeople can choose however they want to live their lives, but the good thing is those who pursue the truth and treat all people with an open mind, will have real peace and happiness within themselvesAnd like my grandmother when looking back her life. There will be no regret, but most importantly, her spirits will be inheritedAnd the good that she has shared with this worldTogether with her soul will resound throughout all of creationWhen having a new child, we start new life for the child, but we also for ourselves and this time we can live the way we chooseWe learn things together with the child that we want them to learnSome things as small as watching some cartoons and some as big as figuring out our liveWe choose to teach our children the values we think are rightAnd by doing that the right value get further reinforced within ourselvesAnd finally our right spirit gets inherited by our childrenEven when we are no longer a part of this earthThat is why people should be true to themselves before having kids, otherwise future generation lives will sufferMy grandma instilled in this family a moral ethic and pursuit of the truth that guides us on how to live in this worldAnd the result is that nobody in this family is arrogant and everyone continues to work hard to try and make impactShe has always been true to herself and her spirit will continue in not only descendants but also in every truth that exists within this universeShe will be in the skyShe will be in the starsShe will be in the leaves of the treesShe will be in the flapping wings of a passing butterflyShe will be in the eyes of a dove walking byShe will be in the light of a half lit moonShe will be in touch of a slight breeze of windHer spirit and soul will be with us, For all of eternity</h3> <p class="ql-block">孟麒缅怀姥姥</p><p class="ql-block">Dear Grandma,I want to send you my prayers through my writing and my playing of the piece Prayer on your beloved piano. Please Listen. To my dearest and most respected Grandmother, Although my memories of you are scarce, my emotions are overflowing.I will never forget the time we spent together,With the burning summer rays,And the scent of Beijing penetrating the room. I don’t remember much,But there is no one that does not sing praises of you.And from those acclaims, I’d like to thank you.Thank you for being the muse to your family.You left behind your unbound energy with my mom)Yu li), your serenity with my first aunty（Yu chen li), generosity with my second aunt (Yan li), and your eloquence with my uncle (Su li). Thank you for your love in music,your belief in humanity,your diligence,And much more. Grandma,Rest peacefully, and assured of the household you’ve built.Now you dwell inside our words, actions, and dreams,As close to us as we are to ourselves. </p><p class="ql-block">我最親愛的姥姥，你能聼到我嗎？我想一邊為你彈奏你最愛的鋼琴曲《祈禱》，一邊與你輕談。雖然，我在美国出生，對你的記億有限。但我取了你的名字 Meng Chee。我對你的感情溢滿心扉。我無法忘懷我和你在一起的時光，北京炎熱的夏天裏, 我迫不急待的飛向北京，飛向你！我雖不記的很多，但全世界都在歐歌你！你被世人所愛，我想對你說，謝謝你！ 謝謝你像一把燃燒的火炬，引領我們全家，並照亮全世界！你把你的热情与执着留給了我的媽媽（李玉），你把你的淡雅和从容留给了大姨(李允晨），你把你的康慨留给了我的二姨（李延），你把你卓越的口才留给了我的舅舅（李肃）。 謝謝你熱愛音樂，相信人性美，一生勤勉，牵手你最爱的姥爷，完成你完美的一生。姥姥，你安息吧！你建立的家園，你卓越的思想，梦想和行动，已與你子孫后代融为一体。</p><p class="ql-block">你將万古流芳！</p><p class="ql-block">孟麒 Lisa Meng</p><p class="ql-block">写于休斯顿5.11.2020.</p> <h3>钢琴曲 祷告 Prayer_Celine Dion</h3> <h3>2020哀民生多艰惜母亲仙逝动荡年悲莫悲，生死离别五月五战瘟疫千万念母爱神还路漫漫乐莫乐，飞龙在天</h3> <h3>2020 端午节</h3> <h3>给妈妈换上鲜花</h3> <h3>妈妈和孟麒 2002</h3> <h3>2020 父亲节</h3> <h3>孟麒18</h3> <h3>2020 Ariel 29</h3> <h3>2020 Ava Wang 满月</h3> <h3>2020 Lisa piano recitals via zoom</h3> <h3>B day card from 大姨</h3> <h3>18 Birthday wish from mom & dad</h3> <h3>18 Birthday card from J&A</h3> <h3>18 Bday card from UC Berkeley </h3> <h3>18 B day card from 二姨</h3> <h3>Awty 2020 Class </h3> <h3>妈妈，自从你走后，我们和爸爸每天Wechat 视频 ！帮他安排了小姚理发，...替你照顾好爸爸！</h3> <h3>妈妈，你离开我们两个月了. 我们托云去问侯天上的你2020.7.3 </h3>