Be the best you can be

清馨高雅

Be the best you can be

Admittedly, there are individual differences between people.People's IQ and EQ are also different.Regardless of their own family and environmental conditions, we should treat them in a normal way, be responsible for our own life and destiny, and maximize the value of our life.People in the universe is extremely small, so people also should pursue their own inner peace and happinessin their life.

Human's interaction sometimes is very subtle, and to meet the best people, it is important to understand the art of conversation.A good speaker, like the sun in the winter, has light but not dazzling, let a person feel warm and comfortable.Of course, one should learn to manage his emotions both in life and work. A person who can manage his emotions well is a person with high EQ. He or she is often more successful in doing things and more popular in getting along well with others.As napoleon said, "he who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take a city."People who can control their own emotions not only is a sigh of high emotional intelligence, but also the ability to control one's own life.

To be yourself best, you must learn to be brave and strong in life.Here,the so-called brave person ,namely,is not afraid of suffering, not afraid of competition, after the experience can also love life. Sometimes have to lose yourself in order to find yourself, singing all the way.Sometimes we are very fragile,a word from someone might make us burst into tears,but if you look back at the way you've come, you've find that you have already come a long way.

Be the best you can be, be grateful.Remember that when you do something good, don't ask for the future.It is not accidental for people’s occurrence and encounter, to believe that everything is the best arrangement.No matter how the world change, just be kind to others, your kindness, hidden in your most true blessing.The road ahead might be bumpy, just be prepared to face it.Your courage, hidden in your most tenacious strength.Despite of the fame and vanity, only do your own peace, your calm, hiding your most solid future.

Be your best self in every moment .Life is like a practice, learn to adjust a good state of mind, then the joy or frustrations encountered on the road, will make you grow, make you precipitation.

To be the best you can be, you must have your own thoughts and not be easily changed by other's ideas or some special circumstances.Cherish what you have in hand, let the heart thoroughly some, some simple.Do the best of their own, learn to see light some things, let go of some old people.Life is a process, happiness will have sadness, tears will have laughter, rain will have sunny days, there will be lost.A life without regrets is incomplete.

You can't extend the length of your life,but you can grasp its width; Unpredictable,and the extension of life,but can enrich the connotation of it; Unable to grasp the quantity of life,but can improve its quality.We can’t control the direction of the wind but we can adjust our sails.Be the best of yourself, simple and comfortable, calmly and indifferent, not trapped in the heart, not chaotic in the situation.not only learn to make sacrifices, but also learn to give up. Treat everything and each person you like sincerely , but never do meaningless entanglement.

You know, the real nobility is not in the material, not in the appearance, but in the hearYou know, the real nobility is not in the material, not in the appearance, but in the heart of the kind and calm, not wronged, not tangled, not demanding.Be the best yourself, will meet the best people, can have the life you want, live as you like.Just be yourself,come on.

做最好的自己

做最好的自己。不得不承认，人与人之间是有个体差异的。智商和情商指数也都不一样。无论自身条件和环境条件如何，都要平常心看待，都要对自己的生命和命运负责任，做到自我生命价值的最大化。人在宇宙中是极其渺小的，所以人活着也要追寻自己内心的平静和快乐。

人与人之间的相处有时是微妙的，要想遇见最好的别人，懂得谈话的艺术就显得尤为重要了。好好说话的人，就像冬日里的阳光，有光芒而不刺眼，让人感到既温暖又舒服。当然，生活中和工作中要学会管理自己的情绪，一个能管理好情绪的人是情商高的人，做事往往比较容易成功，在与人相处中也更受欢迎。正如拿破仑所说：“能控制自己情绪的人，比能拿下一座城池的将军更伟大。”情绪的背后，是情商，更是一个人掌控自己人生的实力。

做最好的自己，就要在生活中学会勇敢和坚强。所谓勇敢的人，即是不怕磨难，不惧竞争，在经历之后还能热爱生活，知世故而不世故，一路高歌。有时候我们很脆弱，一句话就可能泪流满面，有时候回头看看，原来也已不知不觉中走了很长的路。

做最好的自己，就要常怀一颗感恩之心。我一直很喜欢一句话，叫做“但行好事，莫问前程”。这世上没有平白无故的发生和遇见，要相信，一切都是最好的安排。任凭世事变化，只做善良的自己，你的善良里，藏着你最真实的福报。任凭前路坎坷，只做真实的自己，你的勇敢中，藏着你最强韧的力量。任凭虚名浮华，只做平和的自己，你的沉稳中，藏着你最踏实的未来。在当下的每一个时刻，都要做最好的自己。人生就像一场修行，学会调整好心态，那么这一程路上遇到的喜悦或坎坷，都会使你成长，使你沉淀。你若盛开，清风自来，你若精彩，天自安排。

做最好的自己，就要有自己的思想，不能被他人和环境轻易改变自己内心真实的想法。珍惜手里拥有的一切，让心透彻一些，简单一些。

做最好的自己，就学会看淡一些事情，放开一些旧人。生活是一个过程，有喜就会有悲，有哭就会有笑，有阴雨就会有晴天，有得到亦会有失去。没有遗憾的人生同样是不完整的，要学会让它们成为台阶，要明白，人得继续往前走。

你无法延长生命的长度,却可以把握它的宽度；无法预知生命的外延,却可以丰富它的内涵；无法把握生命的量,却可以提升它的质。我们不能控制风的方向，但我们可以控制自己的帆。

做最好的自己，简单自在，从容淡然，不困于心，不乱于情。既要付出，也要学会舍弃，真诚地对待每一份喜欢和美好，但也绝不做无意义的纠缠，要做一个拿得起也放得下的人。

要知道，真正的高贵不在物质，不在外貌，而在于内心的那种善良和从容，不委屈，不纠结，不强求。做最好的自己，才会遇见最好的别人，才能拥有想要的生活，活成自己和他人都喜欢的样子。

请乘理想之马，挥鞭从此启程，路上春色正好，天上太阳正晴。