什么是沟通

黄糖妞

<h3><font color="#ed2308"> 什么是,沟通?</font></h3><h3> 沟通是有了误会及时说明,</h3><h3> 有了意见直接提出,</h3><h3> 有了矛盾互相认错。</h3><h3> 为什么要沟通?</h3><h3> 没有沟通,</h3><h3> 人和人之间就有了隔阂,</h3><h3> 心和心之间就有了距离。</h3><h3> 两个人之间,</h3><h3> 没有沟通就没有延续,</h3><h3> 没有联系就没有感情。</h3><h3>如果一个不问,一个不说,</h3><h3>再熟悉的人,</h3><h3>也会渐渐没了共同语言,</h3><h3>再深的感情,</h3><h3>也会渐渐找不到支点。</h3><h3>连倾诉和倾听的欲望都没有了,</h3><h3>这段感情也就差不多走到了头。</h3><h3>没有良好的情绪,</h3><h3>心里话就说不出来,</h3><h3>真心话就听不进去。</h3><h3>说话阴阳怪气,</h3><h3>让人误以为是挑衅。</h3><h3>脾气一触即发,</h3><h3><font color="#010101">把沟通变成了吵架。</font></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">没有良好的情绪,</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">心里话就说不出来,<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">真心话就听不进去。<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">说话阴阳怪气,<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">让人误以为是挑衅。<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">脾气一触即发,<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">把沟通变成了吵架。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要沟通,就诚心实意。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">平和的情绪,诚恳的语气。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">治得了你脾气的,是你爱的人;</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">受得了你脾气的,是爱你的人。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">控制得了情绪,你就是主动的人;</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">被情绪所控制,你就注定是被动。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有时,生活就是一种妥协,</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一种忍让,一种迁就。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">并非所有的事情,</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">都适宜针锋相对,铿锵有力。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">强硬有强硬的好处,</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">忍让有忍让的优势。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">妥协不一定全是软弱,</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">忍让不一定就是无能。学会与人沟通,</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">学会控制脾气,</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">学会调整情绪,</span></h3>