【欢喜过大年】:回婆家过年

秋天的童话冬天写

<h3><br></h3><h3></h3><div class="image-package" style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; position: relative; margin-right: -15px; margin-bottom: 22px; margin-left: -15px; line-height: 1; text-align: center; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;"><br style="outline: transparent solid 0px;"><div class="image-caption" style="outline: transparent solid 0px; display: inline-block; width: 200px; min-height: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(217, 217, 217); margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; padding: 10px; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(153, 153, 153); line-height: 21px; visibility: hidden; position: absolute; pointer-events: none; word-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-word;"></div><h3><br></h3></div><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">年,是一家家的团圆,也是一户户守侯的希望。有钱没钱回家过年成了我们最普通的心愿!过年了,心暖了。内心洋溢着幸福畅想的我,遇到“回谁家过年?”的问题还是会黯然神伤。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;"><b style="outline: transparent solid 0px;">曾经我以为爱比天大,后来发现爱只是天上的一朵浮云,生活包围了它。</b></h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">婚后的我对年愈发没有感觉(因为总回婆家过年)。我想回家陪父母过年,可是这样小小的愿望常常无法实现。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">公公婆婆是大字不识的地道农民,秉承着“媳妇就是泼出去的水,婆家才是真正的家”的理念过了大半辈子,当我那丁点儿念想遇到他们的“死理”,瞬间化为灰烬,再无重燃的可能。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">好在先生明辨是非,总给我“小火苗”,让我不要灰心,他会慢慢想办法。这个办法他想了七八年,始终没有下文,而我的心早已经糊掉了。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">小年二十三的中午,95后同事问我:以后结婚了可怎么办?我只想在自己家里过年。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">我干笑,内心如火灼,我何尝不想呢?</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">她接着说:“就是轮流过年,我也不愿意啊,我父母没人陪。”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">“我父母没人陪一定不快乐的。”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;"><b style="outline: transparent solid 0px;">城里的独生子女应该都有这样的困惑,其实农村的多子女家庭的孩子如我也有同样的忧虑。</b></h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">大年二十八晚上,我告诉先生“今年我哪也不想去了,你们回家过年吧!”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">我这是明摆着的“挑衅”,我心里盘算着如果不让我回娘家过年,那我也不回婆家过年了。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">他的脸色一下晴转阴,默默看了我三秒,不打算说话。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">我知道他一定又在启动那个七年也没有成功的法子了。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">“你不回去,我们爷俩回去啥意思?”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">“我管不着”,我赌气了。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">“我再想想,再议。”他走开,留下我一个人品尝五味混杂的心情。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">真是酸甜苦辣涩一应俱全,朋友圈里浩浩荡荡回家的喜悦令我滴下了眼泪。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">大年二十九,我坐在床上,看窗外的腊梅开了,风停了,泪眼婆娑的我吟着“风住尘香花满窗,日晚倦梳头。”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">他推门进来,“词改的好啊。”好像要上来吻我,眼神充满爱意。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">披头散发状如女鬼的我推开强凑过来的脸:<b style="outline: transparent solid 0px;">“我哪也不去,此处就是我的年</b>。”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">眼看大年三十的太阳就要升起,大马路上车子少了很多很多,生意火爆的酸菜鱼馆关门回家过大年了,药店门口挂着“新年快乐,年后再见”的牌子,先生坐不住了。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">他请来小儿爬上我的被窝,宝宝肉嘟嘟的脸蛋蹭上我的脸颊“妈妈,你不爱爸爸和宝宝了吗?”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">我温柔的看着他“不是,妈妈只想休息一下。”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">“我们一起回奶奶家过年,我和小朋友们玩,爸爸睡在麻将桌上,我们都不用你管的,妈妈到时你就可以休息了。”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">我不忍剥夺掉孩子对年的憧憬,也不想就这样放弃。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">“妈妈,爸爸说等今晚你睡着,他就把你扛回老家。”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">我实在听不下去,噗嗤一声笑了,多么简单直接的丈夫,这也许就是我的命吗?</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;"><b style="outline: transparent solid 0px;">回家过年,过你们的年,让我静静吧!</b></h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">狠话说了三火车厢,最后还是我抱着孩子出现在了村口。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">天寒地冻的大年三十晚上,带着孩子给各家辞岁,孩子们生火烤火,大人们展开桌子铺上麻将,一切都是祥和的。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">我坐在火堆边,看着联欢晚会,《站台》里佟大为和母亲的通话让我泪目。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">“孩子,我和你爸去三亚旅游了,不说了,我要游泳了。”</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">佟大为看着电话哭了,因为他妈是用家里座机打的。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;"><b style="outline: transparent solid 0px;">不管回哪里过年,只要孩子过得好,父母就放心了。</b>父母放心了,可是内心是否缺一点圆满,有一些遗憾,这些缺憾在以后的年年岁岁里会慢慢成为习惯吗?</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">我的心被刺的生疼,无论如何明年我一定要陪父母过年,这是诺言,也是希望。</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">灯通宵的亮着,婆家的年徐徐展开,一派热闹非凡,此刻我在想母亲包的饺子里放了一块硬币吗?父亲的毡帽里放了百元大钞吗?</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">少年的梦跑进了我的脑海里,梦里我笑了,笑的开怀肆意,笑的随心所欲,但愿明早的大公鸡不要早起,这样我的梦可以做的久一点,好吗?</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;"><br></h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">文:秋天的童话冬天写</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">图:网络侵删</h3><p style="white-space: normal; outline: transparent solid 0px; margin-bottom: 25px; word-break: break-word; caret-color: rgb(47, 47, 47); color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;; font-size: 18px;">音乐:轻音乐</h3>