感谢师恩,大爱无疆,助她成长!@_@
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","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"爷爷奶奶,给了她一个家
17岁那年,高三的儿子和高一的侄女同住一室,上下铺,很不方便,书桌也只有一个。为了解决侄女生活问题,也为了照顾年迈的父母,我在附近给父母买了二手房,把老家的父母接到辽阳,侄女和爷奶搬进新家,至此,才过上比较安定的日子。
爷奶从小把她带大,彼此都有很深的感情,侄女很满足,感觉很幸福,放学回到她的小屋安静的学习,一坐就是3个小时,心无旁骛。高二时,她以班级第一的成绩从平行班升入重点班。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"青年,我陪着你成长
18岁时,爷爷奶奶不适应城里生活,想念老家,无奈,我把他们又送回到老家小镇,丢下放假的儿子独自在家,自己搬过去和侄女一起生活了一年多。
在高考前最后半年,她考进了30人的重点小班(称火箭班)。我陪她完成高三学业,陪她参加高考,帮她报志愿,聊人生,一起等待高考结果。
19岁,这个坎坷而又幸运的孩子,终于迎来了她人生的第一个春天。坎坷,是她经历了19年生活的艰难,幸运是她有诸多的亲人、老师、朋友爱她帮助她。捧着中国医科大学本硕连读的录取通知书,我和她一样心存百味!
她是个懂事的孩子,生活中从不向大人提任何要求。她穿的衣服除了我买的,几乎全部是我的朋友、同事们送的,她毫不介意,并心存感激。
她是个孝顺的孩子,对爸妈体谅,对爷爷奶奶照顾,对我敬若生母。花钱极为节俭,冰雪天都不肯打车上学,365天每天骑车,风雨不误,10点才下晚自习。重点班的学生,几乎个个是重点保护,女生更是父母百倍呵护,只有她是个例外。她不让我去接,坚持每天自己骑车回家。","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":644,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/d623e051942c4647a0468a17d5eb1af8.jpg","img_width":640,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"她是个低调的女生,不管学习多好,不管多少人知道她的事,称赞她的坚强,善良,朴实,她还是原来的样子,隐忍,听话,懂事,从来不会抱怨。从妈妈去世,她一直希望做个医生,相信自己能做个好医生。
爸爸一家去了广州后,可能受了南方人影响,在那又生了两个孩子,侄女就有了3个弟妹,一家人6口人,只有爸爸一人挣钱,爸爸努力想给他多邮钱,但常常是力不从心。
高考后,《千山晚报》头版登载了她苦中求学的事,有很多人打电话想给予资助,她说不想欠陌生人太多,将来都无以回报,只接受了市总工会、民政局等组织的帮助。但好心的亲戚,老师等都感动她的经历,伸出援手,少则200,多到5000,大家为侄女凑了3万多的费用,一笔笔,她都把这些记到了小本子上,生活一如既往,节省每一分钱。高考后的假期,白天去参加英语口语班,回家还要学习。后期一个人坐了很久的火车,去外地老家,照顾爷爷奶奶,直到大学开学。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"同事们都说,我送走儿子上大学后,又陪侄女高考很辛苦,可是和一个孩子这些年的努力付出相比,又算什么。
春天来了,希望就在眼前,苦尽甜来,一切美好的开始!
大学4年过去了,学医的侄女很辛苦,她说同学们从来没在11.30前睡觉过,她每年能得到奖学金。
附三张2012年我抓拍的照片
这件体恤是15元钱早市买的,大号童装,她很瘦弱,穿了三个夏天。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":563,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/125edc3c39a04cc98fb2197ff98806a7.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"其实我有条件让她穿得更好,但我不敢,也不想让她失去那份朴实的本色!我要她学会感恩,对物质不要求太多,经历磨砺,越挫越勇,希望她保持永远的斗志和拼搏的动力!
上大学后,为了学习,我给她买了笔记本电脑,小米手机。今年24岁生日送她个联想平板,希望侄女繁重的学习生活中,劳逸结合,放松娱乐。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"接到大学录取通知书,非常开心。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":563,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/5e23b042a437449e90d0fef84ffd60f0.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"和哥哥一起拆信封,侄女好瘦小。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":563,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/88a1f33bc1fc49a19b607c8033c43300.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"帮爷爷剪指甲。蓝色毛衣,是我穿过的。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"大学五年
2014年冬天,侄女放寒假了,有几位家长联系她请做家教。为了减轻家里的负担,她每天出去做家教,侄女讲课认真。晚上自己要学习医学课程到深夜,医学生本就辛苦啊。每晚,爷爷奶奶做好饭,把被子铺好,开了电褥子等孙女回来。懂事的九零后,得空还要帮奶奶洗碗,拖地,洗衣服做家务。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1000,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/042da274d4a94a5daee99125f408419d.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"我抓拍的,帮奶奶泡脚。懂事的让人心疼。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":719,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/77e40ea1d15b45f0b0c91c1d7a00200e.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"学医的孩子到底有多累?有人在网上发了这个图片,看看就知道了。好心疼瘦弱的侄女!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":423,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/786aed7b337e4576b06399307c21dac9.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"生活辛苦磨砺,难得她依然是阳光般灿烂的笑脸
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"又一个寒假,侄女每天6个小时做家教,不停的讲课,备课,有5个学生了,初中时的英语老师也帮她联系学生。补课同时,侄女自己还喝着中药调理身体。面对还有3个弟妹的家庭,她希望挣出生活费,不让大人操心。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":562,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/6dce4ce3d4cb48ac8aa83c8c7715e9e2.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"过年包饺子,都是侄女杆的面皮,动作娴熟!她会做饭菜,奶奶每次腰疼病犯了,只能整天卧床,所有家务都她来做,她会自己和面弄馅包饺子,照顾爷奶非常细心,经常说爸爸不在,要多替他行孝。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":423,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/003331489f90418db8dfb579062d2fa1.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2015年除夕,丫头一本正经的站到我们面前,有点羞涩的拿出两个红包,她用自己的家教钱,分别给奶奶爷爷,还有我包了200红包,并坚持一定要收下!
红包被推来推去,最后把大家都搞哭了!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":423,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/bd28d0c6d4774304bdc3ecf0ed7ec162.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"爷爷心疼孙女!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":423,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/1e8f1885d3eb46189880257b7f92466e.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"真不知道,她骨子里有多少坚强,多少隐忍,多少宽容,她心里对未来生活有多少渴望。但每个接触她的人,都能感受到她的善良和阳光!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1333,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/47a6b570fe0a4c26aa3b3c33f35ca99d.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"这是2012年,我第一次在qq空间记录侄女成长经历,侄女看后给我的回复!细读可见女孩成熟的心智。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1227,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/f8322d42e7164f07b2da89085d2ff4fe.jpg","img_width":1071,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2016年的清明假期结束了,侄女背起简单的书包,又要返校了,我们送她到楼下,她带着阳光样的笑脸,挥手道别~~
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":462,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/d841e3a892db40ec9171c529b7ff03d2.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"明媚的春天又来了。
到处是美景,到处是出游的人们。
可是侄女,仍然在苦读,外面的美景都与她无关。但是我知道,春天,一定盛开在她心里!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1482,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/1e30ad513b104adabf1fdc436e065d62.jpg","img_width":1199,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2016年冬,侄女来看我,穿着大姨买的棉鞋,我买的羽绒服,哥哥的围巾…
她依然背着三年前我买的双肩书包,边缘都磨破了,我责怪自己疏忽,赶紧网购一个,一个新书包就会给她一个不小的惊喜。容易满足,才那么幸福。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1600,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/0de433ae9e864da9919c903f151a2245.jpg","img_width":1200,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":800,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/29b3400a73e740dfaea9c2119a0bd003.jpg","img_width":600,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"好女孩,总会受到命运眷顾!
朴实的侄女如今也赢得了爱情,同班同学,一个清秀的男生诚心待她两年,终成情侣。这是个家教很好的男生,和侄女一样温和,单纯,两个人相处愉快默契。他来自一个和谐有爱的家庭,公务员的父母对儿子很疼爱,对侄女也是疼爱有加。每次侄女去过周末,父母都极尽可能做好吃的,单独给安排舒适的住宿起居,准备好齐备的生活用品,照顾的周到细致。
记得第一次去之前,侄女特意微信问我去家里好不好。我说既然家人热情邀请过周末可以去,只要有你单独住的房间就好,侄女回答可以的。第二天微信我:阿姨给了个红包,姑姑我要不要收?
我挺意外,也很开心。这不是钱的问题,而是一家人对侄女的认可和尊重。我告诉她,真诚的红包谢过收吧,也是一种尊重,要珍惜,好好相处!
想想一个命运多舛的女孩,能有这样一个归宿,全家人都很开心,很安慰!感谢他们善待侄女,给了她家的温暖,亲人的关爱!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1280,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/80d70d932d34455ba3bf63762d8ca9f0.jpg","img_width":722,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年春节,侄女随大姨旅游照。
侄女有一个大姨,三个舅舅,妈妈去世后,经济上这些亲属也给予了很大帮助,特别是大姨和三舅。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":573,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/216cefef6ed7413b955570b34469b5b4.jpg","img_width":538,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年春节,我弟弟带着二女儿彤,为省点路费,各种倒车,颠簸了三天多从广州回来辽宁过年。
第一天见面,两个同父异母的姐妹,虽然十年没见面,却异常亲近。这个就是侄女小学时常帮继母带的妹妹,她们相差八岁。这个妹妹一直钦佩姐姐,以姐姐为榜样,学习成绩也是班级第一。
彤告诉我们,今年过生日,意外的收到姐姐邮寄来的一大包礼物,有水杯,本子等等。她是个话很少的女孩,比姐姐还稳重成熟,她说很奇怪,自己没说过,姐姐怎么知道她的生日。
侄女没有因为当年爸爸执意离婚,以及后来妈妈抑郁病逝,而怨怼继母和父亲,她用一颗宽容的心,接纳继母,并善待三个同父异母的弟妹。
我问彤,你对姐姐啥印象?她缓缓的说,阳光,可爱,坚强,对人很暖……
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1472,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/6877f360777c47dd868a4180a8026fc2.jpg","img_width":1499,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"160的娇小姐姐给人回信息时,167的妹妹趴在肩头等她,好有画面感。谁能想到她们是分别生活在南北方,十年未在一起的异母姐妹!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":3,"video_end_time":0,"video_length":0,"video_origin_path":"","video_start_time":0,"video_thumbnail":"http://static2.ivwen.com/users/697751/1486131330398.jpg","video_url":"http://video.ivwen.com/users/697751/1486131330391.mp4"},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1700,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/5e01c7853f5c44f48e1a48143124ba5b.jpg","img_width":1080,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年夏,我买的体恤,侄女试穿完拍了发我,几十元的衣服穿着也好看!😂
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1599,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/ca76c61a21894f12815fd3baf4fea08a.jpg","img_width":1199,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"哥嫂(我儿子,儿媳)送的项链,未来公婆给买的套装,爱笑的女孩就是美美哒!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":800,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/74b7ca9fa4c34644b8eaad0aaf083193.jpg","img_width":800,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"攻读医学硕士三年
2017年9月,侄女开始读研,实习地在中医科大学附属第二医院,为方便上班,她在医院附近租了房。整个八九月,我都忙儿子婚事,没顾上她找房和搬家等事。两周后我才抽空开车去看侄女,给她带去生活用品,帮她收拾房间,重新摆摆家具。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":800,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/8641643930ba45a5a6cf151806f15068.jpg","img_width":800,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"听说我要去,侄女早早忙着下厨,中午男友不在,她做了我们两个人的饭菜,山药炒荷兰豆,牛肉西红柿,素的清淡,荤的醇香,哎呀,厨艺不错,这是得了我的真传?😂
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1255,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/5a3786bc73104b31b649d137b91132c7.jpg","img_width":1082,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年10月27日,这是一个里程碑的日子,侄女特别开心的告诉我,她领到了1900元研究生津贴!这是读研的学生实习期间每月租房,伙食,交通补助。
我能懂她的开心,这些年,一直伸手接受别人的接济,帮助,终于自己可以领钱了,虽然不到两千,但对她来说,足够生活了!不止如此,她还想着别人呢
第二天适逢重阳节,侄女用刚刚到手的津贴,微信给广州的妹妹发了一百元红包,嘱咐她替自己给住在那的爷奶,买好吃的!妹妹用这钱买了鱼肉,水果,八宝粥等。那天,爷爷奶奶过了一个最开心的重阳节!但爷爷又掉泪了。
10天后,侄女休班来看我,给我买个理疗仪送来,说治疗我的背痛!领到她人生的第一份\"工资\",没给自己买点啥,先想到爷奶和我。我嘴上怪她,心疼她花钱,心里却无限温暖!
其实,她妈妈去世留给她的一点点钱和亲属凑的学费,到2017年上半年,已经全部用完。未来三年,每年1.2万学费和生活费,再怎么节省算下来至少五六万吧,我告诉她不用担心,缺的不够的,都有姑姑在!
如今,想想侄女终于熬到了可以每月领津贴贴补生活,虽然不多,但足够给人安慰,给人希望,给人快乐。
我,有种看到曙光的欣慰和轻松!
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爷奶从广州回到东北,侄女赶回家看望,还给爸爸买了礼物,一条皮带。侄女穿戴的围巾帽子和毛衣,是吕昂姐姐给的,虽然不是新买的,依然很开心!
相由心生,善良的人,永远是最美的!
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人生总有春暖花开。
相信付出会有回报,相信
努力的人一定会苦尽甜来。
未来可期,给你满满的祝福
给你,我一直的爱…
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好心人,你在哪里,你不是美友,也查不到你的微信,想和你真诚的说声感谢都不能够!😪😪😪
我只好在此篇结尾,借此处写下我的谢意和祝福,感谢美篇平台,祝愿所有关心鼓励侄女的朋友们,好运常在!特别是这位goqili的微信朋友,祝福您和家人永远幸福,安康!愿好人好报,永远为您祈祷😊🙏🙏🙏
大家的祝福我都转达侄女,所有的赞赏鼓励,也毫不保留的转给她。
我有能力助她完成硕士学业,不用打赏这么多让我不安和有压力😂😂。来自好心人的关心爱护,会激励她继续苦中求学,砥砺前行!再次感谢🙏🙏🙏
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能在艰难中生存和成长的,苦难也是财富。
苦难成了历练,苦难成了修行,所有流过的眼泪,都会变成钻石。
我侄女的成长,很励志,她就像多肉植物那么顽强的生存,即便无水,面对强烈的日光,也依然呈现美艳。
回忆往事,我流泪写完此篇。
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过去的19年里,几乎每隔五年,她就要换个家庭生活。生活空间不断变换,不变的是她的单纯,善良,朴实,还有学习的努力!
童年--父母离异
3岁时,她还不懂事,父母就离婚了。爸爸抱着她,只提着一个简单的行李包走出了那个家。之后爸爸去甘肃工作,她就留在爷爷奶奶身边。 爷爷每天在市场做小生意,她就坐在爷爷的人力车上去幼儿园,回来在奶奶的严厉教育下写老师留的作业(我妈的严厉,我从小就领教过了)。要是作业写的不好,奶奶撕了让重写,五岁的侄女就一边哭一边写。奶奶常说:必须好好学,你这一辈子,只能靠自己。
7岁时,因为要上学了,她回到辽阳,爸爸一人去了广州打工,她就和继母一起生活,继母小她爸爸八岁,难为她了,一结婚就做了后娘。两年后继母生了妹妹,侄女每天上学,回来写作业,帮妈妈带妹妹。
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六月份的一个早晨,我骑车去早市买菜,顺便给她们买了吃的送去。侄女从厨房窗口望了一眼,看到是我悄悄开了门,小学二年级的侄女,正在吃凉的饭菜准备上学😫。我心疼的责备她,至少用热水泡泡饭再吃啊!她怯怯的说,妹妹夜里闹,妈妈睡不好,暖水瓶在妈妈屋里,早上没敢进去拿。我直接掉下了眼泪😭…
如果不是那么早去,我都不知道这孩子每天自己起床,收拾好床铺,自己吃饭去上学😪。弟妹自己带两个孩子,也很不容易,我也不好说啥,只是让她把热水瓶放厨房里,并时不时的以送吃的名义去看看。
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12岁时,生母将她接到身边,在学校边上租了一间简陋的房子,简单的木板床,白天把被子卷到一边,裸露的床板就是她写作业的书桌,也是和妈妈吃饭的饭桌,晚上被子放下来,就和妈妈睡在上面,屋角的纸箱放着简单衣物。妈妈下岗没有工作,在拮据中,母女一起生活了四年,期间我时常去探望,送去吃的用的。
就这样,侄女在实验小学83人的班里以第一名的成绩毕业。
15岁时那年,她生母突然给我打电话,说她患上了乳腺癌,已到晚期,托付我日后照顾孩子。我当时就泪奔了!才知侄女每天上学,回来买菜做饭,一个人照顾病重的妈妈,可是我每次送东西只到楼下(她们住在六楼,每次都是侄女下来),侄女竟然都没和我说过😓!
这一年侄女初二,生活如此艰难,但初中三年她成绩始终保持班级第一。
16岁生母去世。出殡很凄凉,只有我和爱人,侄女及她大姨四人送行。弟弟一家已经去了广州,想让侄女过去,怕影响她学习成绩,我把侄女接到我家住,照顾她生活和学习,第二年,顺利升入辽阳市重点高中。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":864,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/f990123bbcee44c0b17c7edd5fccec8b.jpg","img_width":690,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"一张老照片,13岁,侄女和生母生活时拍的,笑得好开心,或许,那段时光虽苦尤甜。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"非常幸运的是,侄女遇到了很多好老师!
初中班主任李天普老师,对侄女关照如父爱!帮助联系免费的补习,关注她的学习生活和思想情绪,包括侄女做阑尾手术等以及后来的日子,给予了太多鼓励,援助和支持!
初中三年里所有补课费,被好心的女校长免收了,还供午餐。高考后,她认侄女做干女儿,继续帮助她学习和生活。
一高中的杨宇春老师,只做了侄女短暂一年的班主任,因我去开家长会,得知侄女的情况,默默关怀侄女三年,他们一家人三年里先后资助侄女6000多元,鼓励她学习。
感谢师恩,大爱无疆,助她成长!@_@
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","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"爷爷奶奶,给了她一个家
17岁那年,高三的儿子和高一的侄女同住一室,上下铺,很不方便,书桌也只有一个。为了解决侄女生活问题,也为了照顾年迈的父母,我在附近给父母买了二手房,把老家的父母接到辽阳,侄女和爷奶搬进新家,至此,才过上比较安定的日子。
爷奶从小把她带大,彼此都有很深的感情,侄女很满足,感觉很幸福,放学回到她的小屋安静的学习,一坐就是3个小时,心无旁骛。高二时,她以班级第一的成绩从平行班升入重点班。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"青年,我陪着你成长
18岁时,爷爷奶奶不适应城里生活,想念老家,无奈,我把他们又送回到老家小镇,丢下放假的儿子独自在家,自己搬过去和侄女一起生活了一年多。
在高考前最后半年,她考进了30人的重点小班(称火箭班)。我陪她完成高三学业,陪她参加高考,帮她报志愿,聊人生,一起等待高考结果。
19岁,这个坎坷而又幸运的孩子,终于迎来了她人生的第一个春天。坎坷,是她经历了19年生活的艰难,幸运是她有诸多的亲人、老师、朋友爱她帮助她。捧着中国医科大学本硕连读的录取通知书,我和她一样心存百味!
她是个懂事的孩子,生活中从不向大人提任何要求。她穿的衣服除了我买的,几乎全部是我的朋友、同事们送的,她毫不介意,并心存感激。
她是个孝顺的孩子,对爸妈体谅,对爷爷奶奶照顾,对我敬若生母。花钱极为节俭,冰雪天都不肯打车上学,365天每天骑车,风雨不误,10点才下晚自习。重点班的学生,几乎个个是重点保护,女生更是父母百倍呵护,只有她是个例外。她不让我去接,坚持每天自己骑车回家。","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":644,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/d623e051942c4647a0468a17d5eb1af8.jpg","img_width":640,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"她是个低调的女生,不管学习多好,不管多少人知道她的事,称赞她的坚强,善良,朴实,她还是原来的样子,隐忍,听话,懂事,从来不会抱怨。从妈妈去世,她一直希望做个医生,相信自己能做个好医生。
爸爸一家去了广州后,可能受了南方人影响,在那又生了两个孩子,侄女就有了3个弟妹,一家人6口人,只有爸爸一人挣钱,爸爸努力想给他多邮钱,但常常是力不从心。
高考后,《千山晚报》头版登载了她苦中求学的事,有很多人打电话想给予资助,她说不想欠陌生人太多,将来都无以回报,只接受了市总工会、民政局等组织的帮助。但好心的亲戚,老师等都感动她的经历,伸出援手,少则200,多到5000,大家为侄女凑了3万多的费用,一笔笔,她都把这些记到了小本子上,生活一如既往,节省每一分钱。高考后的假期,白天去参加英语口语班,回家还要学习。后期一个人坐了很久的火车,去外地老家,照顾爷爷奶奶,直到大学开学。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"同事们都说,我送走儿子上大学后,又陪侄女高考很辛苦,可是和一个孩子这些年的努力付出相比,又算什么。
春天来了,希望就在眼前,苦尽甜来,一切美好的开始!
大学4年过去了,学医的侄女很辛苦,她说同学们从来没在11.30前睡觉过,她每年能得到奖学金。
附三张2012年我抓拍的照片
这件体恤是15元钱早市买的,大号童装,她很瘦弱,穿了三个夏天。
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上大学后,为了学习,我给她买了笔记本电脑,小米手机。今年24岁生日送她个联想平板,希望侄女繁重的学习生活中,劳逸结合,放松娱乐。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"接到大学录取通知书,非常开心。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":563,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/5e23b042a437449e90d0fef84ffd60f0.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"和哥哥一起拆信封,侄女好瘦小。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":563,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/88a1f33bc1fc49a19b607c8033c43300.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"帮爷爷剪指甲。蓝色毛衣,是我穿过的。
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2014年冬天,侄女放寒假了,有几位家长联系她请做家教。为了减轻家里的负担,她每天出去做家教,侄女讲课认真。晚上自己要学习医学课程到深夜,医学生本就辛苦啊。每晚,爷爷奶奶做好饭,把被子铺好,开了电褥子等孙女回来。懂事的九零后,得空还要帮奶奶洗碗,拖地,洗衣服做家务。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1000,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/042da274d4a94a5daee99125f408419d.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"我抓拍的,帮奶奶泡脚。懂事的让人心疼。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":719,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/77e40ea1d15b45f0b0c91c1d7a00200e.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"学医的孩子到底有多累?有人在网上发了这个图片,看看就知道了。好心疼瘦弱的侄女!
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","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"又一个寒假,侄女每天6个小时做家教,不停的讲课,备课,有5个学生了,初中时的英语老师也帮她联系学生。补课同时,侄女自己还喝着中药调理身体。面对还有3个弟妹的家庭,她希望挣出生活费,不让大人操心。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":562,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/6dce4ce3d4cb48ac8aa83c8c7715e9e2.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"过年包饺子,都是侄女杆的面皮,动作娴熟!她会做饭菜,奶奶每次腰疼病犯了,只能整天卧床,所有家务都她来做,她会自己和面弄馅包饺子,照顾爷奶非常细心,经常说爸爸不在,要多替他行孝。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":423,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/003331489f90418db8dfb579062d2fa1.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2015年除夕,丫头一本正经的站到我们面前,有点羞涩的拿出两个红包,她用自己的家教钱,分别给奶奶爷爷,还有我包了200红包,并坚持一定要收下!
红包被推来推去,最后把大家都搞哭了!
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","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":423,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/1e8f1885d3eb46189880257b7f92466e.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"真不知道,她骨子里有多少坚强,多少隐忍,多少宽容,她心里对未来生活有多少渴望。但每个接触她的人,都能感受到她的善良和阳光!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1333,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/47a6b570fe0a4c26aa3b3c33f35ca99d.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"这是2012年,我第一次在qq空间记录侄女成长经历,侄女看后给我的回复!细读可见女孩成熟的心智。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1227,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/f8322d42e7164f07b2da89085d2ff4fe.jpg","img_width":1071,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2016年的清明假期结束了,侄女背起简单的书包,又要返校了,我们送她到楼下,她带着阳光样的笑脸,挥手道别~~
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":462,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/d841e3a892db40ec9171c529b7ff03d2.jpg","img_width":750,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"明媚的春天又来了。
到处是美景,到处是出游的人们。
可是侄女,仍然在苦读,外面的美景都与她无关。但是我知道,春天,一定盛开在她心里!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1482,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/1e30ad513b104adabf1fdc436e065d62.jpg","img_width":1199,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2016年冬,侄女来看我,穿着大姨买的棉鞋,我买的羽绒服,哥哥的围巾…
她依然背着三年前我买的双肩书包,边缘都磨破了,我责怪自己疏忽,赶紧网购一个,一个新书包就会给她一个不小的惊喜。容易满足,才那么幸福。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1600,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/0de433ae9e864da9919c903f151a2245.jpg","img_width":1200,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":800,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/29b3400a73e740dfaea9c2119a0bd003.jpg","img_width":600,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"好女孩,总会受到命运眷顾!
朴实的侄女如今也赢得了爱情,同班同学,一个清秀的男生诚心待她两年,终成情侣。这是个家教很好的男生,和侄女一样温和,单纯,两个人相处愉快默契。他来自一个和谐有爱的家庭,公务员的父母对儿子很疼爱,对侄女也是疼爱有加。每次侄女去过周末,父母都极尽可能做好吃的,单独给安排舒适的住宿起居,准备好齐备的生活用品,照顾的周到细致。
记得第一次去之前,侄女特意微信问我去家里好不好。我说既然家人热情邀请过周末可以去,只要有你单独住的房间就好,侄女回答可以的。第二天微信我:阿姨给了个红包,姑姑我要不要收?
我挺意外,也很开心。这不是钱的问题,而是一家人对侄女的认可和尊重。我告诉她,真诚的红包谢过收吧,也是一种尊重,要珍惜,好好相处!
想想一个命运多舛的女孩,能有这样一个归宿,全家人都很开心,很安慰!感谢他们善待侄女,给了她家的温暖,亲人的关爱!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1280,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/80d70d932d34455ba3bf63762d8ca9f0.jpg","img_width":722,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年春节,侄女随大姨旅游照。
侄女有一个大姨,三个舅舅,妈妈去世后,经济上这些亲属也给予了很大帮助,特别是大姨和三舅。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":573,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/216cefef6ed7413b955570b34469b5b4.jpg","img_width":538,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年春节,我弟弟带着二女儿彤,为省点路费,各种倒车,颠簸了三天多从广州回来辽宁过年。
第一天见面,两个同父异母的姐妹,虽然十年没见面,却异常亲近。这个就是侄女小学时常帮继母带的妹妹,她们相差八岁。这个妹妹一直钦佩姐姐,以姐姐为榜样,学习成绩也是班级第一。
彤告诉我们,今年过生日,意外的收到姐姐邮寄来的一大包礼物,有水杯,本子等等。她是个话很少的女孩,比姐姐还稳重成熟,她说很奇怪,自己没说过,姐姐怎么知道她的生日。
侄女没有因为当年爸爸执意离婚,以及后来妈妈抑郁病逝,而怨怼继母和父亲,她用一颗宽容的心,接纳继母,并善待三个同父异母的弟妹。
我问彤,你对姐姐啥印象?她缓缓的说,阳光,可爱,坚强,对人很暖……
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1472,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/6877f360777c47dd868a4180a8026fc2.jpg","img_width":1499,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"160的娇小姐姐给人回信息时,167的妹妹趴在肩头等她,好有画面感。谁能想到她们是分别生活在南北方,十年未在一起的异母姐妹!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":3,"video_end_time":0,"video_length":0,"video_origin_path":"","video_start_time":0,"video_thumbnail":"http://static2.ivwen.com/users/697751/1486131330398.jpg","video_url":"http://video.ivwen.com/users/697751/1486131330391.mp4"},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1700,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/5e01c7853f5c44f48e1a48143124ba5b.jpg","img_width":1080,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年夏,我买的体恤,侄女试穿完拍了发我,几十元的衣服穿着也好看!😂
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1599,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/ca76c61a21894f12815fd3baf4fea08a.jpg","img_width":1199,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"哥嫂(我儿子,儿媳)送的项链,未来公婆给买的套装,爱笑的女孩就是美美哒!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":800,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/74b7ca9fa4c34644b8eaad0aaf083193.jpg","img_width":800,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"攻读医学硕士三年
2017年9月,侄女开始读研,实习地在中医科大学附属第二医院,为方便上班,她在医院附近租了房。整个八九月,我都忙儿子婚事,没顾上她找房和搬家等事。两周后我才抽空开车去看侄女,给她带去生活用品,帮她收拾房间,重新摆摆家具。
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":800,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/8641643930ba45a5a6cf151806f15068.jpg","img_width":800,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"听说我要去,侄女早早忙着下厨,中午男友不在,她做了我们两个人的饭菜,山药炒荷兰豆,牛肉西红柿,素的清淡,荤的醇香,哎呀,厨艺不错,这是得了我的真传?😂
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1255,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/5a3786bc73104b31b649d137b91132c7.jpg","img_width":1082,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年10月27日,这是一个里程碑的日子,侄女特别开心的告诉我,她领到了1900元研究生津贴!这是读研的学生实习期间每月租房,伙食,交通补助。
我能懂她的开心,这些年,一直伸手接受别人的接济,帮助,终于自己可以领钱了,虽然不到两千,但对她来说,足够生活了!不止如此,她还想着别人呢
第二天适逢重阳节,侄女用刚刚到手的津贴,微信给广州的妹妹发了一百元红包,嘱咐她替自己给住在那的爷奶,买好吃的!妹妹用这钱买了鱼肉,水果,八宝粥等。那天,爷爷奶奶过了一个最开心的重阳节!但爷爷又掉泪了。
10天后,侄女休班来看我,给我买个理疗仪送来,说治疗我的背痛!领到她人生的第一份\"工资\",没给自己买点啥,先想到爷奶和我。我嘴上怪她,心疼她花钱,心里却无限温暖!
其实,她妈妈去世留给她的一点点钱和亲属凑的学费,到2017年上半年,已经全部用完。未来三年,每年1.2万学费和生活费,再怎么节省算下来至少五六万吧,我告诉她不用担心,缺的不够的,都有姑姑在!
如今,想想侄女终于熬到了可以每月领津贴贴补生活,虽然不多,但足够给人安慰,给人希望,给人快乐。
我,有种看到曙光的欣慰和轻松!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1107,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/6793ced2eadb47e29296e2a876ad68c5.jpg","img_width":1187,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"2017年11月5日。
爷奶从广州回到东北,侄女赶回家看望,还给爸爸买了礼物,一条皮带。侄女穿戴的围巾帽子和毛衣,是吕昂姐姐给的,虽然不是新买的,依然很开心!
相由心生,善良的人,永远是最美的!
","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":776,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/f60690e1f51049c38e78d93c992dc24d.jpg","img_width":1280,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"img_height":1199,"img_url":"https://ss2.meipian.me/users/697751/b6106f61624146bab5e19f23546b0556.jpg","img_width":1618,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","type":1},{"audio_music_id":0,"source":0,"source_platform":"local","text":"岁月没有永远的阴霾,
人生总有春暖花开。
相信付出会有回报,相信
努力的人一定会苦尽甜来。
未来可期,给你满满的祝福
给你,我一直的爱…
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好心人,你在哪里,你不是美友,也查不到你的微信,想和你真诚的说声感谢都不能够!😪😪😪
我只好在此篇结尾,借此处写下我的谢意和祝福,感谢美篇平台,祝愿所有关心鼓励侄女的朋友们,好运常在!特别是这位goqili的微信朋友,祝福您和家人永远幸福,安康!愿好人好报,永远为您祈祷😊🙏🙏🙏
大家的祝福我都转达侄女,所有的赞赏鼓励,也毫不保留的转给她。
我有能力助她完成硕士学业,不用打赏这么多让我不安和有压力😂😂。来自好心人的关心爱护,会激励她继续苦中求学,砥砺前行!再次感谢🙏🙏🙏
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