大女儿写的：" When I wake up in the morning and go about my normal day, I dont feel as if LaoLao is actually gone. Growing up, I had been used to not seeing my relatives every day, so I feel adapted to not having her physical presence with me all the time. But despite the distance and language barriers, Ive always felt that LaoLao has always been with me in a different way.
I have been told that I share this special bond with LaoLao, and I dont think Ive begun to really understand it until now. My mom would always tell me that LaoLao and I were alike in many ways, and I think Ive come to understand this as part of LaoLaos spirit living in me. I think this is why I wake up every day and feel that she is still here because I still have all of these memories with her that fuel my connection to her. Memories like when Allison and I were little and used to play hairdresser and put clothespins in her hair, or when she would take us on outings just to make us happy, or when she came to the U.S. and got to see Allison and I in our dance performance. Im glad that I get to carry all of these precious memories with me, and they comfort me. They dont make me feel disconnected or alone when I think of LaoLao. This connection that I have to LaoLao is something I will fight to protect, because I dont ever want to wake up one day and feel like Ive completely lost her. I hope I can keep making her proud as she watches down on me and all of us from heaven. I love you, LaoLao. I promise I wont let you down"